Virginia Wedding Planner

Planning luxury weddings in Virginia, North Carolina, & beyond.

About Blush & Grace Events

With over 25 years of experience, we specialize in curating luxury weddings that embody timeless elegance and personal style.

Our approach combines impeccable attention to detail with a deep commitment to creating bespoke experiences that reflect your unique love story.

From intimate garden ceremonies to grand ballroom receptions, we handle every detail with care, allowing you to fully enjoy your special day.

We believe in crafting memories that last a lifetime, ensuring your wedding is a true reflection of grace, beauty, and refinement.

Meet Tracy Fink

Founder Of Blush & Grace Events

My philosophy is simple — I LOVE LOVE! Nothing gives me more fulfillment than knowing I had a small part to play in two people declaring their love for one another. It's the moments that fill my heart and soul, and have kept me going for 25+ years of events.

Add to that my compulsion to constantly organize (...poor husband) and my career path feeds my quality of life.

Outside of weddings, my husband and I have 6 grown kids, and are the ultimate “foster fails” with 4 rescue dogs and 4 cats. We hope to rescue wild animals when we get older.

In a past life, I flew airplanes in the Air Force Auxiliary and learned how to fly helicopters — so it's safe to say I do well under pressure and think quickly on my feet.

"Could not have done it without Tracy with Blush and Grace Events! I would highly recommend her to anyone planning a wedding. She is the BEST!"

- Nicole

Meet Courtney Meissner

wedding planner

I started my journey in wedding planning with Tracy in March 2021.

Before this, I actually thought I’d be an elementary school teacher. However, my path took an unexpected turn back in 2017 when I stumbled upon a wedding planner setting up a beach-front wedding back home in New Jersey. My usually introverted self walked over, thinking it would just be a quick chat, but that moment changed my career direction entirely. After graduating from High Point University in 2020 and moving to North Carolina, Tracy and I began working together, and the rest is history.

What I love most about weddings are those intimate, heartfelt moments, like a father-daughter first look or a couple's first touch with a vow reading. And I have to admit, giving the bridal gown a final fluff before sending her down the aisle gets me every time.

In my free time, you’ll probably find me at Hot Pilates, hitting the gym, relaxing at a local brewery, or cozying up at home with a great book.

Meet Ashley Wolf

wedding Planner

Whether it be a misplaced fork, a timeline that needs adjusting, or a bride needing a moment of calm on her biggest day, I aim to give the highest level of service I can to my couple. I started my wedding journey in 2015 as a receptionist in Delray Beach, FL which led me to earn my certification in 2018 for coordination and planning, and I have been planning weddings ever since. 

Wedding planner by day, mom of 3 also by day?? I have three young boys and they sure do keep me busy! We're a very active family and you can always catch us doing some family activity that I've roped everyone into. Can't forget about my obsession with audiobooks. And it wouldn't be wedding day without my yellow Redbull in tow, I think I should be sponsored by now!

It's true, I am OCD - but my couples find it very comforting knowing the smallest of details will be thought of and managed before they even have the chance to become a challenge! But I'm not all numbers and angles and details..I am your biggest cheerleader in the process, a friend and most importantly - honest to your vision.

I can't wait to work with you!

Our Couples

We understand that today’s modern bride is discerning and has a vision of her perfect day.

Whether it’s a breathtaking outdoor ceremony with sweeping landscapes, a glamorous ballroom reception, or an intimate garden affair, we are dedicated to transforming dreams into reality with impeccable attention to detail and flawless execution.

Our brides are confident, stylish, and desire nothing less than perfection on their wedding day—an experience that is uniquely their own.

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